Friends first dating
Once you do that, there are a number of things you can do to increase your chances of making new guy friends.
But even if you feel desperate to make new guy friends, you’ve got to relax.
The end of high school and college seem to be the prime time for men to make friends with other guys.
This is when we start to zero in on our interests and begin finding paths for our adult lives.
It’s hard to say why guy’s aren’t great at making friends with other men.Many guys are happy to maintain a few strong connections with men they’ve met in high school or college—and they don’t feel the need for much more socialization beyond that and their family.I am good at making acquaintances with NEW guys that I meet. But on a weekend, I’d rather work in my yard all day and relax by the grill in the evening than hang with any “NEW” friend.There has to be an activity where we can both contribute our own skills and appreciate/value what the other has to offer.When two men affirm each other’s usefulness and significance, friendship is almost bound to arise.”–Matt, Distilled Man reader Keeping friends as you get older is the difficult part. you may get to hang out every once in a while but just like anything that you want to grow it needs to be nurtured and attended to.